In the last week or so, I've repeatedly bounced off something you might call a
beserk button.
Specifically: I don't care who you are, I care about whether or not you're
right.
I don't care if you've raised two children, I care about whether or not you're
right.
I don't care if you served for twenty years in the marines, I care about whether or not you're
right.
I don't care if you've devoted your entire life to a political cause, I care about whether or not you're
right.
I don't care if you've got a PhD, I care about whether or not you're
right.
I don't care if you're old enough to be my grandfather, I care about whether or not you're
right.
I don't care if you feel entitled to respect or special authority on the basis of some life experience you've had, I care about whether or not you're
right.
It is likely the case that the amount of life experience one has can have some bearing over one's ability to draw valid conclusions on given subjects. (I would much rather trust an experienced doctor to draw a valid conclusion in response to a medical inquiry than I would trust a random person on the street.) But even in these cases, it's the conclusions which really interest me, not the life story of the person who reached them, because it's the conclusions which really matter. (And the conclusions themselves should still be right regardless of the life experiences of the person expressing them. The doctor isn't right because being a doctor gives them some special magical perceptive power that only doctors can ever possess, they're right because their knowledge and experience equip them to draw conclusions which nevertheless stand up on their own two legs, even without the MD propping them up.)
In fact, I'll take that one further: if you feel the need to buttress your conclusions with language to the effect of "my life experiences have been interesting, therefore my conclusions are true", I'm probably going to be more--not less--skeptical of whatever else you want to say, because to me it sounds like you know your conclusions don't hold water on their own merit.
Anyone else have a similar gut reaction?