I was just wondering if any INTJ's have problems with dating. I've been successful in my career as a INTJ, but not in dating. I'm in my early 30's and I'm frustrated b/c my friends have gotten married and I've had no luck. I have trouble meeting women in the first place and my relationships usually last only 1 or 2 dates. I've had several serious relationships, but they were many years ago. I think the problem I have is with the whole small talk/flirting thing. I basically don't do well with small talk and flirting, but I am fine with just regular conversation about things I'm interested in. Usually the relationship ends with the woman saying she thought I was a nice guy, but no spark there. As a INTJ, I take a while to warm up to a person and feel comfortable enough to show my feelings. Also, the only luck I have meeting women is through online dating, where have other INTJ's been successful meeting women?